Have you forgiven?

I asked my cousin, John Kevin , today if he had forgiven his Mother for treating him badly?

"Oh, ya,...a long time ago."

I asked him how he did it.  How did he forgive her?

While... You carry it around a long time..then you let it go.  Or

you wrap it in   a   bundle--  tie it up----put a bow on it---put it under your arm,

and carry it to Hell with you.